We have no idea what Wednesday will bring, but let’s do this. Let’s commit to focusing on what we once shared with that friend whose life path led him to a different decision. Let’s honor his or her life path if not the most recent destination. We’ve had different life experiences.
Let’s focus on what we both like: the funny things small children say, lazy days at the beach, imaginative Halloween costumes, the blended aromas of a Thanksgiving kitchen, Peter Pan.
There’s no need to bring Abe Lincoln into this, but well, you know: A house divided against itself cannot stand.
As I passed by on my walk last Thursday, this engraving with its old-fashioned wording spoke to me.


Soothing remarks for a perilous day.
I believe it’s your birthday. My sister-in-law’s, too. She told us all with a raised eyebrow, “You *know* what you can give me.”
I am having a hard time with this right now. You are probably right but I am, frankly, terrified.
I am going to send you an email.