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Ms. Acogo spent several years on the street before receiving vocational training as a tailor from Hashtag Gulu in Uganda.

Recently, PRI’s The World broadcast a valuable but scary series on orphanages in Uganda, nearly all of which are bad. For children from impoverished or abusive homes, the alternative may be life on the streets.

In an issue last December, the Christian Science Monitor‘s Sophie Neiman wrote about how one city’s concerned citizens began helping street children reach for a better life.

“In the sticky evening,” she begins, “two boys in torn clothes dart between shop verandas and wrestle in the dust, trading jokes that quickly turn to insults. Onlookers grunt disapprovingly, angry at the noise. More groups of rowdy children will soon stream into the back alleyways of [the small city of Gulu] in northern Uganda, eking out a life in its underbelly.

“By day, the children pick through discarded plastic bottles trying to gather enough of them to sell. At night, they hang out in the shadows of dance clubs or sleep under pieces of cardboard between shop shelves that normally hold fruit.

“Steven Onek strolls over to the squabbling boys. Speaking in a calm and quiet voice, he breaks up their argument. A few minutes later, around another street corner, he comforts a teenager sporting a deep cut on his head, providing the boy with some money to see a doctor. 

“Such situations are commonplace for Mr. Onek, who is a program officer at Hashtag Gulu, a small organization supporting the city’s homeless children. For him, it is not so much a job as a calling.

‘Helping a child, one child out of the street, I feel like I have helped the whole nation,’ he says, smiling.

“The name Hashtag Gulu points to its history. Friends sharing on social media the problems they saw in their city decided to do more than that. At first, their efforts were all volunteer-based. The friends bought food for homeless children and comforted them when they could.

“ ‘If you were in our network, you were free to do anything, for any young person or child. You didn’t have to report to anyone,’ co-founder and director Michael Ojok said of Hashtag Gulu’s early days.

“Eventually the group grew into a fully registered community organization, as activists attempted to address the added problems caused by the coronavirus pandemic. Now, Hashtag Gulu reunites homeless children with their family members [if possible] and provides them with vocational skills. It is also a rare safe haven, running a free clinic as well as counseling and arts programs.

“Some of the children Hashtag Gulu works with are as young as seven, but its beneficiaries can be as old as 25. Most have nowhere else to go. Others have dropped out of school to make a living on the street, returning to their homes and families only rarely. 

“Gulu is a place accustomed to hardship. For some three decades, between the late 1980s and early 2000s, the city was the epicenter of an uprising against the government mounted by the Lord’s Resistance Army, notorious for forcibly recruiting some 20,000 child soldiers. A grim parade of boys and girls would flood into the city each night and sleep under its market stalls and in church yards, hoping to avoid capture by the rebels, before returning to their villages at dawn.

“Today, the children are often escaping family abuse or neglect, hoping to make it on their own. Mr. Dong, who asked to use a pseudonym, fled to the streets when he was six years old. His mother had died giving birth to him, and the women his father brought home with him were physically and emotionally abusive.

“Without parents to look out for him, he fell in with other children for safety. ‘I got a family outside of my family,’ he says. They helped each other find food; they also offered some protection in a community that viewed them as troublemakers, and from police officers quick to make arrests. …

“While collecting scrap metal a few years ago, a blade fell and cut Mr. Dong’s foot. He came to Hashtag Gulu for free medical treatment. After healing his injuries, workers provided him with piglets and agricultural training. Mr. Dong, now 16, lives with an aunt and continues to care for his pigs. …

“Hashtag Gulu also works with other local organizations to provide employment. At Taka Taka Plastics, which transforms waste into home goods, some 20 children who once lived on Gulu’s streets have been given jobs.

“Their Taka Taka earnings have enabled those young people to rent their own rooms, buy and cook their own food, and even start side businesses, says co-founder Paige Balcom, an American living in Gulu. 

“A municipal survey conducted two years ago estimated that there are some 2,000 children living rough in Gulu. So far, Hashtag Gulu has managed to reach about half of them with its programs. …

“Looking forward to the holiday is Ms. Acogo, also a pseudonym. Like Mr. Dong, she fled abuse at home, arriving on the streets in her early teens.

“ ‘We would go to night clubs, and there were men who would always support us. That is how we survived,’ she recalls quietly.

“Ms. Acogo became pregnant by one of those men. Hashtag Gulu helped her train as a tailor, and reconnected her with her grandmother. 

” ‘I didn’t know where to start from, how to raise this child,’ she recalls, holding her one-month-old baby. ‘Other women at home are now supporting me and guiding me into motherhood.’ “

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Commercial fishing is recognized as a high-stress job. Land & Sea Together offers a 24-hour help line and free counseling sessions with Coastline, a Rhode Island-based employee assistance program, for farming, fisheries, and forestry workers and their families.

Because I have never lived very far from the Atlantic, I have long known that the people who go out into deep water to catch the fish we buy are doing dangerous work. Fishermen may be injured handling boats in rough seas. Boats may be lost and the crew never seen again. The stress on families can be beyond belief.

That is why I was interested to read in this ecoRi News article that in Rhode Island, at least, help is available for workers in industries identified as especially stressful.

Bonnie Phillips writes, “Workers in Rhode Island’s farming, fisheries, and forestry [FFF] industries struggle with a number of stressors: the impacts of climate change; workforce issues; business and financial concerns; restrictive regulations, and more.

“Until recently, there were few ways workers in these industries — which have long working hours, often in isolation — could access support, whether financial, emotional, or physical. A new initiative, Land & Sea Together, is working to change that.

“ ‘Farmers and fishermen are among the professions most likely to commit suicide each year, and many more folks suffer silently as they tend their crops, equipment, and vessels,’ according to the organization’s website. Land & Sea aims to ‘reduce stress and build mental and financial resilience in the fisheries, forestry and farming communities’ by building a collaborative network of support services.

“The USDA-funded program, operated through the Rhode Island Department of Environmental Management and implemented by the Warwick-based Center for Collaboration and Mediation RI, was started in June 2022 with an initial $500,000 USDA grant. …

“To better understand the communities it wanted to help, Land & Sea put together a comprehensive needs assessment, released last December. For the 90-page report, L&ST studied existing data on the FFF industries in Rhode Island; surveyed individuals working in the industries about stressors; and convened a focus group of workers/owners in the industries. …

“Across the three industries, the main causes of stress were similar: financial management concerns; small-business operations; impacts of climate change; the inability to control the weather; labor shortages; succession planning; lack of access to resources; transportation barriers; housing challenges; longer working hours and increased workloads at peak times; and compliance with government regulations, according to the report. …

“Farmers, who often work where they live, said the lack of separation between work and home can blur the lines of family life, which often results in conflicts. And from spring to fall — the growing season — local farmers are under high amounts of stress, the report says, which can be exacerbated by the weather.

“Those in the fishing industry said heavy workloads, time pressure, lack of support due to isolated working conditions, and climate change were their main stressors. Employers in the fishing, aquaculture, and shellfishing industries reported difficulty hiring reliable workers, some of which they attributed to the lack of public transportation, especially in southern Rhode Island, and the difficulty of keeping employees during the winter. …

“A lack of mental health resources and a reluctance to seek help were identified as an issue across the FFF industries. Some employers, the report said, were unaware of available mental health resources they could offer their employees. Others said the nature of some of the jobs — lack of flexibility in the work schedule, uncompensated time off, and lack of insurance — prevented workers from seeking help. …

‘Most people in sea industries view themselves as a cross between Vikings and pirates, and they do not view themselves as people who need help,’ according to the report. …

“Employers interviewed for the report said they did not think their employees would seek help, and said they especially watch out for signs of concern in their younger employees. …

“Land & Sea offers a 24-hour help line and up to 12 free counseling sessions with Coastline EAP, a Rhode Island-based employee assistance program, for FFF workers and their families. Since the launch of the program in June 2022, [Laurel Witri, former director of the program] said, ’60 farming, fisheries, and forestry workers have called for assistance, receiving 286 hours of support with free outpatient services, financial counseling.’ …

The free, confidential help line with Coastline EAP is 1-800-445-1195, and support is available in English, Spanish, Portuguese, and Cape Verde Creole. The National Suicide and Crisis Hotline is 988, available by call or text.

More at ecoRI News, here. This nonprofit highlights environmental stories that often effect the whole country. It has no paywall, but please consider a donation.

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