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Photo: Nicole Asbury/Washington Post.
Ellie Salb, a first-grader at Fields Road Elementary School in Gaithersburg, Maryland, works on an activity alongside retiree Bobbi Sandrin.

When I was researching retirement communities, I was impressed the Hebrew Life’s Newbridge on the Charles in Dedham, Massachusetts, had a school on the campus where interested residents could volunteer. The Rashi School’s website says, “Over the course of their Pre-Kindergarten to Grade 8 education, every student experiences multiple touchpoints with NewBridge residents, and many form lasting relationships with their senior neighbors.”

I was reminded of that in reading Nicole Asbury’s article at the Washington Post on a similar arrangement.

“Six-year-old Ellie Salb was about to have one of her favorite days of the week: the day when ‘Granny B and ‘Granny M’ come to her first-grade classroom with stickers and sweets.

“Bobbi Sandrin and Marcia Klein are two former teachers who live in a retirement community about a half-mile away from Fields Road Elementary School in Gaithersburg [Maryland]. They’re part of about a dozen other seniors who volunteer at the school each week, a project that one of the community’s residents pitched earlier this year.

“Stephani Sausser, who teaches Ellie’s first-grade class, said the effort has had a positive impact in her classroom.

“Klein, known as ‘Granny M,’ has a background in reading recovery, Sausser said, and will read with students one-on-one to help them build skills like sounding out words and putting sounds in words together. Sandrin, or ‘Granny B,’ typically focuses on reading comprehension assignments.

“Sausser said their presence has been a big help, since she can spend more time in the classroom digging into students’ skills and tailoring lessons for them. … The partnership between the school and senior living community started in January with a cold email.

“Bob Karp, 86, had recently moved to Gaithersburg to be closer to his daughter and grandson after spending about 30 years in Boston. But after a few months of getting settled, he said — with a slight chuckle in his voice — he was starting to get ‘impatient about doing something.’

“Karp, the son of a former principal in Boston, grew up hearing conversations about public schools at the dinner table. So when he learned there was an elementary school close to his new home, he wrote to principal Joshua Williams with a request: ‘I would very much like to meet with you to discuss volunteering options for our residents including several who taught in the Montgomery County Public Schools.

“Karp was uncertain about how the request would land. But about three days later, Williams replied. He loved the idea.

“Karp, Williams and another resident named Jim Pattison met later that week to discuss how to make it work. … Before the current school year started in August, the principal asked teachers what support they needed, and in return, the volunteers said what they thought they could help with. Karp said they had a “match day,” like residents do in medical school.

“The school hasn’t had a partnership like this before, said Williams, who is in his second year leading the Gaithersburg school. The school serves a diverse population of about 450 students, and about half receive free or reduced-priced meals. Since the initiative started, the senior community has also raised about $4,000 to buyT-shirts for the students to wear on field trips and a school tree and garden beautification project. …

“Pattison usually comes every Friday, but recently missed a shift because he was in the hospital. He sent an email to second-grade teacher Mandy Huang explaining his absence. To his delight, several of the second-graders sent him ‘get well’ cards — some of which made him laugh.

“During his most recent visit, he was chuckling again after some children tried guessing how old he was. Some of the kids guessed he was over 100 years old.

“Pattison, who is 74, said those interactions are meaningful to him. … ‘It’s a way for us to get out of ourselves, not to be so wrapped up with our aches and pains — complaints that come with old age.’

“Most of the volunteers rotate around the building’s three third-grade classrooms, a grade level that experts say is critical for students to master reading skills. Five of the retirees help with small group reading.

“Quinn Liston, 8, said she’s gotten better with some of her words since she has started to read aloud with the volunteers. … ‘It’s really fun to read with them, because you think you’re scared to read and mess up the words,’ she said. ‘But actually, when you mess up the words, the people help you.’

“On a recent visit, Janice Faden was in the middle of reading a graphic novel with third-grader Dereck Romero Núñez. ‘He’s so expressive. We’ve talked a little bit about crash, bang and the words that sound like they mean,’ Baden said. She explained to him that those words were a use of onomatopoeia in stories.

“As if on cue, Dereck’s finger landed on a block of text that depicted a rocket flying off. He sounded it out: ‘Ka-ka-boosk!’ “

More at the Post, here.

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Being around kids can be good for old folks.

As my friends and I discuss whether or not to sign up for senior communities, one big worry is not seeing children very often. Not necessarily just children in our own families, but the kids that are in the neighborhood or that we pass on our walks or our trips to the the library and shops. Many of us don’t want to be somewhere with no sidewalks to a town, where you can feel a bit normal.

Eleanor Laise at MarketWatch recently reported on a trend that aims to deal with that issue.

She writes, “It’s a warm spring Monday in Easthampton, Mass., and from the front porch of her townhome in the Treehouse intergenerational community, Sue Brow can see several neighbors’ well-kept gardens in bloom. Brow, 60, has helped plant the garden of one neighbor who was ill, and she’s pitching in to grow tomatoes on another neighbor’s patio. Later in the afternoon, residents gather to play games in a communal building. Brow’s 16-year-old son helps take out the older neighbors’ trash, and in their living room sits a birdhouse he just painted at a community celebration attended by residents and friends ranging in age from three to 83. 

“In her four years living at Treehouse, a community designed to bring together seniors with families who are fostering or adopting children, Brow … raised her adopted son with the help of dozens of fellow residents who live within a few minutes’ walk along the horseshoe-shaped street that forms the neighborhood’s backbone. ‘I don’t know what I would have done’ without that [says] Brow. …

“As America enters an era of unprecedented age diversity, new designs for intergenerational communities are taking shape across the country, intentionally weaving together the lives of older and younger residents and breaking down barriers that have segregated elders in traditional senior housing.

“In these new communities, octogenarians can help 8-year-olds with their math homework after school, residents of all ages can prepare and eat meals together, and neighbors can take turns caring for a sick resident who might otherwise wind up in a nursing home. 

“[The] communities often feature smaller, age-friendly dwellings tightly clustered around shared green spaces. Many include community gardens and common buildings where older and younger residents can work and play side by side.

“The trend is not so much a new idea as the resurrection of a very old one. ‘Multiple generations living close by and looking out for each other is possibly the oldest of all human ideas,’ says Dr. Bill Thomas, a geriatrician who last year announced the launch of new, intergenerational Kallimos Communities. …

“In addition to Kallimos, which plans to open its first community in Loveland, Colo., next year, other intergenerational communities in the works include Regenerative Communities, spearheaded by hospitality entrepreneur Chip Conley; Agrihood, designed around an urban farm in Santa Clara, Calif.; and 4300 San Pablo, an Emeryville, Calif., community designed for seniors and young adults who are aging out of the foster care system. …

“These communities are springing up at a time when COVID-19 has spotlighted the pivotal role they can play in society, aging experts say. During the pandemic, it was ‘truly heartbreaking and horrifying how all these ways we’ve separated people — including by age — left us ill-prepared to deal with a crisis of this magnitude,’ says Marc Freedman, president and CEO of Encore.org, a nonprofit focused on intergenerational connection. 

“Isolation proved devastating not only for seniors in locked-down facilities but also younger people stuck taking Zoom classes in their bedrooms, says Bob Kramer, cofounder and strategic adviser for the National Investment Center for Seniors Housing and Care. Now, when he teaches college students about the impact of isolation, he says, ‘for the first time, 22-year-olds I’m speaking to can empathize with what I’m talking about.’ …  

“Intergenerational communities reflect efforts ‘not just to remake housing but to reinvent the notion of what a family is,’ Freedman says. Those efforts come as the U.S. reaches a new milestone in age diversity, with the population roughly evenly distributed across chronological ages through the mid-70s, according to a recent study from the Stanford Center on Longevity. … ‘The demography of America is changing faster than the financiers and developers of housing are willing to change,’ Thomas says. Housing that was developed for a much younger population, he says, is ‘increasingly out of sync with who we really are.’ “

More at MarketWatch, here. No firewall.

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